Where have we seen these familiar words? Its not too hard to recollect, is it? Yes, you are right. We have come across these three insightful words displayed over cartons carrying easily breakable goods. Fellas, dont get me wrong. Im not here to discuss the breakability of goods. On the other hand, Im going to shed some light on something entirely different...
Hi folks, hope everyone is doing exceptionally good. 😘I was suffering from writer's block for a while, quite unlikely for someone who had a habit of posting subsequently. 😉Anyways here im back with another one and hopefully i believe you'll like it... 😇
Now darting back to the topic, each one of us are clearly aware of the fact that a once care-free, peaceful and calm world took the horrific form of a stressful, busy and challenging one. People are driven by money and power wherein both the gender equally strive to be successful and independent .This scenario continues even after they get married. Working parents will hardly have any time to spare for their kids who ends up being looked after by nannies. Children grow unable to feel the love and affection of their parents.This is not only the case of kids born to working parents but also of divorced and authoritative parents.
New parents especially in today's scenario where joint families are replaced by nuclear families are critically unaware of the right parenting techniques and usually end up going with the flow. Ultimately they lose connection with their beloved kids in future either because of overly pampering them or excessively controlling them. They forget to exercise a balance of both. When kids are overly pampered they grow into adults who crave to get hold of everything they come across and in case they don't, they react to it critically. on the other hand when kids are excessively regulated they resemble caged birds who ultimately turn into dependant,rebellious, poor decision makers, and less confident individuals.
Have you ever thought what might happen when children fail to get their parent's love, care and attention? Yea u r right.. They seek them from outside, which is way more dangerous as they may fall right into the traps of tricksters! 😱 Dont get freaked out already. Its time we all sat down and think about the parenting style we adopt and what changes can be probably made into it... 🤔
Spare some time on a daily basis to sit with your kids and understand their concerns and try your best to offer valuable solutions to them. Never ignore their sulky or moody faces cause they might be going through something you can never imagine!! 😞Try not to hesitate to give a pat or hug your kid even for their minor achievements. Believe me recognition do mean a lot!✨ Show them that they mean the world to you and that you are proud to be their parents, they will never fail to choke you with their love!!! 😍You should take care not to belittle your kids by comparing them with other kids or even their siblings as it can trigger serious mental problems like envy and jealousy in them. Incase your kids are spending more time with their friends than they do with their family, trust me it has a lot to do with the faults in your parenting style. It is undoubtedly the human tendency to incline towards people from whom we get love and recognition. Make them run home to you rather than runaway from you!!! 🤗 Be emphatetic always striving to understand situations from their perspective. Never attack your kids outright whenever they commit errors, rather sit with them and lovingly tell them that it's not right. One must also ensure that they never beat their child harshly as it can also have severe consequences. Its advisable to have some control over their major affairs but its best to let them decide on the small stuffs going on in their lives. As for adolescents, you shall offer advice to them and its best to let them decide ultimately. Let them do things on their own and even make mistakes. Mistakes equip them to be stronger and independent individuals. Do not be overly protective of them once they have reached their adolescent age as it can do more harm then good. Adolescents can be very moody and may not approve of their parents spying on them!😥
Like in the case of every other stuff out there, it's easier to put on paper than put into practice! It's never impossible though, all it takes is an emphatetic and loving heart to make a mind blowing parent! ♥️
Your kids are definitely like that precious piece of glass article which might shatter if not properly cared for, hence, Handle Them with Care 🌼
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