Payback but only your debts✨

Hitting back the lad who pounced on you the day before sounds tempting isn't it?
What if you don't bash him? Will the world go topsy-turvy?

We human beings have the tendency to give back everything we get 😉 and getting revenge is the worst thing we know. Mostly all the movies out there beautify revenge showcasing fights in the most thrilling manner possible with groundbreaking music that anyone after watching it would get goosebumps with an immense urge to bash someone up!

Can we bring a change to this? Yes, we can. The only thing you need to focus on is to replace revenge with forgiveness. Forget about the principle"Blood for blood" and show compassion instead. You gain nothing by taking revenge but in fact, you lose your values,  morals and your humanity by it.

We all have read the story of a woman who tamed a tiger with her love and affection. Slowly but definitely, you can change any beast with your love and care. If someone does bad to you, stop racking your brains thinking of ways to bring them down. On the contrary, pray for them and also be nicer to them. If we stop spreading hate and start showing so much love, the world will be a much merrier place to live in.

Don't hurt people even by a word cause your words cut deeper than the knife. It would feel good to hurt someone for momentary conquest but it hurts them deeply incising wounds that may take forever to heal.

Using "An eye for an eye" style would only do more damage shedding blood, breaking relationships and spreading hatred for fellow beings where man starts fighting even worse than beasts.

Soften your minds, we aren't any superior to any fellow human out there. We aren't given any rights to roam about the planet taking down whoever we please as we see in the game "Grand Theft Auto"! We ought to master the art of forgiveness so much that forgiving people a zillion times need not be a problem. Remember, you are rewarded by the lord for every moment of tolerance and forgiveness.

Being Boomerastic 🎈

Almost every single person out there might have titled someone in their life as   rhino-skinned but have you ever thought about the struggles they might have gone through before they evolved into their thick skinned versions. Thick skinned people are not born as such  but they are infact sensitive people who faced numerous adversities in life and reached a point where almost nothing could break them apart. Their bold eyes shall be yearning to tell a shaking story of resilience.

        Thick skin can be worn by almost anyone, for that all you need are resilience, optimism and utmost patience. with these 3 vital ingredients one can weather even the most destructive test in life. Being resilient doesnt say you shouldn't cry or get depressed but it essentially means that you need to spring back like a boomerang into your former self asap.Cry your heart out, worry about it but only for a while after that close that chapter and place it in the back of your head. if that happens once, twice, a zillion times back to back and you still remain like a tree, congrats you have earned the valuable possession known as the" rhino skin".

      Easier said than done it's not easy to carry a multi load of problems  on your head and pretend as if they are feathers and flowers.. Sorry guyz,but being guilty also doesn't help , so stop torturing yourself on the misfortunes, on the other hand,  think of ammendments and prevent such adversities in future if at all preventable and also do what you can to recover from it for time being... take your mind off  by socialising, going for a walk or outing , engaging in hobbies, playing with kids or pets, etc.

       Just like Simba said in the famous animation "Lion King"," I laugh in the face of danger". do the same but dont go looking for trouble like him 😉  Your mind is how you set it in the first place when you set it on cry baby mode, you will always be a worry wart on the other hand if you set it on Ironman mode you shall grow stronger and stronger with each  storm.When you feel yourself breaking down into a trillion pieces, gather all of those, fix them and be as whole as before. Lastly Love your life cause dear you have so much  to be grateful for ❤️

Love

Real Strength

♥️Handle with care♥️

Where have we seen these familiar words? Its not too hard to recollect, is it? Yes, you are right. We have come across these three insightful words displayed over cartons carrying easily breakable goods. Fellas, dont get me wrong. Im not here to discuss the breakability of goods. On the other hand, Im going to shed some light on something  entirely different... 

Hi folks, hope everyone is doing exceptionally good. 😘I was suffering from writer's block for a while, quite unlikely for someone who had a habit of posting subsequently. 😉Anyways here im back with another one and hopefully i believe you'll like it... 😇

Now darting back to the topic, each one of us are clearly aware of the fact that a once care-free, peaceful and calm world took the horrific form of a stressful, busy and challenging one. People are driven by money and power wherein both the gender equally strive to be  successful and independent .This scenario continues even after they get married. Working parents will hardly have any time to spare for their kids who ends up being looked after by nannies.  Children grow unable to feel the love and affection of their parents.This is not only the case of kids born to working parents but also of divorced and authoritative parents.

New parents especially in today's scenario where joint families are replaced by nuclear families are critically unaware of the right parenting techniques and usually end up going with the flow. Ultimately they lose connection with their beloved kids in future either because of overly pampering them or excessively controlling them. They forget to exercise a balance of both. When kids are overly pampered they grow into adults who crave to get hold of everything they come across and in case they don't, they react to it critically. on the other hand when kids are excessively regulated they resemble caged birds who ultimately turn into dependant,rebellious, poor decision makers, and less confident individuals.

Have you ever thought what might happen when children fail to get their parent's love, care and attention? Yea u r right.. They seek them from outside, which is way more dangerous as they may fall right into the traps of tricksters! 😱 Dont get freaked out already. Its time we all sat down and think about the parenting style we adopt and what changes can be probably made into it... 🤔

Spare some time on a daily basis to sit with your kids and understand their concerns and try your best to offer valuable solutions to them. Never ignore their sulky or moody faces cause they might be going through something you can never imagine!! 😞Try not to hesitate to give a pat or hug your kid even for their minor achievements. Believe me recognition do mean a lot!✨ Show them that they mean the world to you and that you are proud to be their parents, they will never fail to choke you with their love!!! 😍You should take care not to belittle your kids by comparing them with other kids or even their siblings as it can trigger serious mental problems like envy and jealousy in them. Incase your kids are spending more time with their friends than they do with their family, trust me it has a lot to do with the faults in your parenting style. It is undoubtedly the human tendency to incline towards people from whom we get love and recognition. Make them run home to you rather than runaway from you!!! 🤗  Be emphatetic always striving to understand situations from their perspective. Never attack your kids outright whenever they commit errors, rather sit with them and lovingly tell them that it's not right. One must also ensure that they never beat their child harshly as it can also have severe consequences. Its advisable to have some control over their major affairs but its best to let them decide on the small stuffs going on in their lives. As for adolescents, you shall offer advice to them and its best to let them decide ultimately. Let them do things on their own and even make mistakes. Mistakes equip them to be stronger and independent individuals. Do not be overly protective of them once they have reached their adolescent age as it can do more harm then good. Adolescents can be very moody and may not approve of their parents spying on them!😥

Like in the case of every other stuff out there, it's easier to put on paper than put into practice! It's never impossible though, all it takes is an emphatetic and loving heart to make a mind blowing parent! ♥️
Your kids are definitely like that precious piece of glass article which might shatter if not properly cared for, hence, Handle Them with Care 🌼

Only the judge has the right to judge...

Each one of us might have often come across the quote" Do not judge a book by it's cover."We proudly own the habit of reading and forgetting these quotes soon after  without caring enough to ponder over them.Life goes on and one fine day, we happen to see a peer at our workplace or our new classmate keeping away from the "herd".Out of sheer habit,we start "branding" them as arrogant,ego-centric,black sheep and what not.We may not intend to bring any harm to that particular person,but our words possess the power to spread like wildfire ultimately tarnishing the image of that person! One of my professors told me once that their was a student who never mingled with anyone in his class and preferred to live in a world of his own creation.His classmates used to mock at him and desert him. My professor went and sat with that guy,softly enquiring about his whereabouts.He was shocked to learn that the boy had lost both of his parents to an accident some time ago.He advised me to never  form stereotypes of people because it may have the potential to bring tears in our eyes once we learn the truth.Guyz ,it is easy to fall into wrong conclusions about people whom we barely know!!! None of us would care to give a second thought as to get to know about them or at least approach them. We live in a world of stereotypes, prejudices,biases and slandery. Surprisingly, we happen to be comfortable to think about others in ways that pleases us rather than analysing who they actually are. People around us whether they are our classmates,co-workers, subordinates,superiors,etc  hail from different family backgrounds, cultures,and may also carry different stories of their past with them.They may find it difficult to adjust with new people and it may also take time for them to adjust with their new surroundings. It may be as a result of  numerous reasons-
(A) They were extremely comfortable with their old lives and old mates finding it difficult to cope with the changes.
(B) Their past was such that they lost interest and trust in people.
(C)They may have faced enough challenges in life.
(D)Their past happen to be a stark contrast of their present.
(E)They may be introverts.
Whatever might  be the reason, we never know what each person might have gone through in his/her life. Their stories maybe far beyond our wildest of imaginations and those stories may even have the power to outrun those TV dramas. Hence, it is better to keep away from inventing stories,rumors or gossips than to be sorry later on. Never compare these people with others and downgrade them. The least that we can do is to sit with them and get to know about them.If u happen to hear any strange story, speak to that person straightforwardly rather than contributing your share to the "fire". Never harm people by your words or actions. We need to learn to respect our fellow beings and keep ourselves away from invading their rights.I sincerely hope this post helps in providing food for thought and also helps in transforming us to better human beings. The motive behind writing this post is to help all my friends(not mentioning any particular name for the sake of privacy) who are suffering oppression from their fellowmates for being "unique in the lot". Let us realise our mistakes once and for all and vow never to repeat them.Infact, Almighty has forbidden us from forming stereotypes and spreading slandery about others.We must act wisely to protect ourselves from our Lord's wrath!!

Voidness- pain that endures...

We are aware of the saying that goes"one doesn't realise the value of something until it is lost".. Whether or not one provides value to the element before losing it,we still realises its true value once it is no longer with us...It is easy to pity people when they lose their loved ones...It is common to send them our condolences and support but have we really given it a thought on how it feels like to lose someone and to fight the battle with the terrible truth on a daily basis that we cannot meet them again until some misfortune falls upon us???..I thought of writing this after battling with the same truth for the past few months. It had been the lose of my pet bird which colored my life for over 16 years!!!
Yeah, it is common to hear folks say,"It is just a bird and not a human being"To be bitterly frank, my blood boiled whenever I heard that... Obviously ppl have millions of words to comfort others..They would  also have something new to say when I lose a human being!! No one really cares untill something God-forbidden comes their way...This is one of the facts that I have learnt from life...We tend to feel bad for people who have lost their loved ones just like we feel after watching a tragic movie and the feeling might last at the most few hours to one /two days at the max...
But believe me when we lose someone who had been a portion of our own hearts- It 'kills' us...Nothing more appropriately describes that feeling.it 'kills' to realise the fact that they are no longer with us and they won't ever come back during our lifetime!!!
I myself fought with that pain after losing my bird(yeah the 'just bird') for 'n' number of days..I felt pain ripping apart my arteries and veins..I cried until I was drained of tears.. Every animal I came across made me break down several times..I screamed while in shower..I spend days and nights lost in the priceless memories it gave to me...Yes,it was a part of our family and still is...Months passed and now I have come to terms with the fact that nothing lasts forever and we must move on- which is the worst and most difficult part...It is easy to pronounce those two words than to apply it...The  move on is preceded by infinite mental breakdowns...It helps to an extent to not think about the loved one but how long can someone hide from the memories??? Won't a single flashback trigger the flow of terrible emotions???
When someone passes away the void they leave behind is irreplaceable! No one in the entire universe would be sufficient to fill that void.. Ultimately We tend to fill the void with  precious memories  and seal them up...The void remains as a hollow part in our hearts as a reservation for the lost loved one until we die... I'm grateful to Almighty to have provided us with the ability to forget things and allow time to heal all mishaps in life...This is one of the priceless bounties from Almighty...No loss is small,just like in my case,even animals and birds possess feelings and emotions and their demise too have the potential to break our hearts!!!...Afterall, after witnessing what the world has come to, it can be seen that animals are more loving,caring and possess even more 'humanity' than us!!! I pray to Almighty to provide us with the strength to handle all the misfortunes in life...Ameen...

Saga of a Sheet of Paper!!!

What comes to your mind after skimming through the title??? What a blunt question to ask,isn't it??we all are aware of a sheet of paper- one can sketch,scribble,doodle, and paint on it,craft things,wrap objects and what not...This is just one side of the story or rather we shall name it as the pros aspect! On the other hand,the cons aspect constitutes the fact that the above mentioned paper is fragile,easily tearable and can be tampered without much of an effort...
Life is like a sheet of paper in many ways...we make memories with family and friends,follow our passion,pursue our goals,build a secured career...The possibilities are endless...Leading a "near to perfect life", we miss out something very significant amidst the hustle and bustle i.e the warranty period of our sparkling lives!!! We aren't buffoons, we are totally aware of the fact that life comes with a "Limited Edition" tag attached to it but had we actually approached life with that air of seriousness??? Never, I guess so...if we had,we wouldn't be so careless in our approach towards life,which is infinite times more fragile than the paper I discussed about earlier...we are not sure if we would be able to breath the very next sec,are we???
We are too damn busy moving up the ladder of life without caring to analyze the "means" adopted on the way to attain the "ends" !!!Money as in itself used to act as a motivator,still is and forever will as compared to anything in the entire planet as well as in the universe!!! "WE ARE TOO BUSY EARNING MONEY TO CARE ENOUGH HOW WE ARE ACTUALLY EARNING IT...Similarly WE ARE TOO BUSY SPENDING MONEY TO CARE ENOUGH HOW WE ARE ACTUALLY SPENDING IT"...we build castles which outsmarts others in our locality, we sent our children to posh schools, we spent huge bucks on Junks, luxury attires, gadgets, and what not, we party hard by whichever means we are capable of...In short we kill each day on the face of "blue planet" with the arrogant, ignorant and stupid notion that we are "immortals"!!!
We behave as if we are "Immortal cut-outs" of Edward Cullen and his team from the Hollywood Picture" Twilight"
Friends,it's high time we open our eyes wide enough and face the  reality...we aren't immortals...we are just plain mortals with a very limited validity period!! So let's join hands and stop being so greedy,jealous,selfish and self-centered...we all are bound to be food for the worms underneath the soil some day no matter how young we are,how pretty we are, how intelligent we are, how rich we are or how successful we are!!! Dears,and ultimately the only thing that counts is the good that we did!!! We shall be remembered by generations and generations only if we had lead a life worthy of praise and recognition and guys,this recognition does not come from the achievements in life, it derives from the "human-being" that we have been in our lifetime...
So,sweet-hearts buckle-up your seatbelts and start today-Live each day as if it is the last day of your lives,Show gratitude to Almighty for each additional day that he gifts you,give alms to the needy,extend your support to mute creatures, maintain good relationships,smile as much as possible, take care of your body and soul,and last but not the least BE A GOOD HUMAN BEING!!! Never ever be arrogant or proud about yourselves, cause nothing lasts forever...and mark my words IT NEVER DID !!!

Choose to live life "the mad way"!!!

Let's pause for a milli-sec and start pondering"Are our lives as perfect as it seems to be?"

My bro used to  tell me  often that how wonderful it would be if we just put a fullstop to everything that we are doing right now and may in future..for instance our education, career,marriage,job,frustration,depression,dissatisfaction,anxiety,unhappiness etc etc and run away to the forest so that we can lead a "tarzanic life".🍀...How peaceful it would be if we just choose to lead a life in sync with mother nature!!!🌱... We would have nothing to worry about😃...Just like Timon and Pumbaa quoted in the reputed animation movie ~ The Lion King" Hakuna Matata" which means no worries🙌.... Critics would say that only cowards  and madmen do it...we don't need their help anyways to realize how crazy my suggestion sounds..let's quickly analyze few lines from the novel"Veronica decides to die" by Paulo Coelho.."Each human being is unique,each with their own qualities, instincts,forms of pleasure,and desire for adventure..However society imposes on us a collective way of behaving and people never stop to wonder why they should behave that way.."we all follow what others do or wot our society marked acceptable for us..we never dream of deviating from the so-called established rules and regulations.. Even if we make an attempt to do so,we might end up titled "Mad"...But do we have to really care about what others think of us??? Won't they find faults with everything we do otherwise??? Then why cant it be for a genuine cause like as this one...Another notion of Paulo Coelho is that people ended  up in asylums even if they are sane so that they could do whatever they want and as we know the "Mad" has total freedom to do what they will..Obviously they would be called Mad but that doesn't matter cause that is wot asylums are for...According to Coelho "madness is  the inability to communicate your ideas..it is as if you were in a foreign country ,able to see and  understand everything that's going on around you but you are incapable of explaining what you need or of being helped cause you don't understand the language they speak there."..we all are mad in one way or other aren't we? We all have dreams that are hidden in the deepest layers of our mind...Yet we prefer to follow the herd... we act like we agree with the society or the world we live in for the fear of being titled whereas in real we secretly wish to do all that we desire...My request to u guyz is that -sit still for a while, ponder what matters the most to you,ensure what you are doing or planning to do is what u really want at heart,follow your passion,don't ever settle for the less cause you are far more special than you think you really are...After all Almighty took extreme care and precision to ensure that each human being isn't a "Replica of another"...So is there any point in us following others??

❤The Girl of My Dreams ❤

Hi fellas...Good day to all..I'm just done reading a romance novel by the renowned author Durjoy Datta titled" The girl of my dreams"..I have no idea if I'm qualified enough to write reviews but that doesnt stop me from  pouring out every single thought that comes to my mind after reading this novel...Something that makes this work protrude from other romantic writings is obviously the unique approach of the author!!This story unlike the usual cheesy stuff takes a sharp turn that got no resemblances to the garden-variety love we dream of...Although people do appreciate cheesy love stories, this is something that makes u realize "how dangerously little you know about love"...Most of  the stories be it in novels or movies usually starts of uneventfully and later gathers momentum..Initially u won't find them gripping but they interests you towards the end..."The girl of my dreams" on the contrary side takes u on a roller-coaster ride right from the beginning towards the end in a way that u can't keep the book down once u commence the reading process....Strange things happen every now and then...The story opens with the hero named Daman who wakes up from a nightmare related to an accident that occurred to him in the past...Daman is  with a beautiful girl named Shreyasi in a car when the unfortunate event happens killing the girl...All he remembers is a hazy face,her hypnotic eyes and her name...Later on Daman weaves his nightmares to a beautiful story portraying him and Shreyasi which transformed into a hugely popular blog...When he got an opportunity to bring out his book ,he had to sacrifice the real shreyasi for a fake one which was supposedly his editor's creation..The subsequent events turned out to be a chain of  horrible disasters!!! The entire story spins around Daman,Shreyasi and Daman's girlfriend, Avni...The sequence of events in the story can be quite confusing at times and mostly the unexpected occurs...!! Another equally striking feature of this work is that it leaves u with no hints on how the story is planning to proceed...I recommend this book to all readers out there who are looking forward to romantic thrillers and not the usual sugary love stories!!!

Teachers-Most Invaluable Gems Ever...

I just wish the session would never end...All i wanna do is to sit there and listen to someone whom i consider as my role model!! Boredom flees to nowhere during that session...The more i listen, the more interested i gets towards the subject...One thing that moves me is the accent and the speaking style of that person..Even if some topics goes dry,it doesn't matter,as long as the person delivers it creatively...Just like all tutors say"if u accept the tutor, u r gonna naturally fall in love with the subject" and vice-versa...Some of ma buddies asks me"How can't u get bored with such a dry subject??" I just smile and that conveys everything...Some says it's very uncomfortable to sit under the nose of teachers, as u need to be attentive all the time..I myself get adhered to the front row so that I get to grasp every ounce of information this tutor shares... U get even more engaged when the person adds up on your points and constantly shares eye-contact with you..Teachers who love their profession and subject always do justice to their students..They burn themselves to light way for their students!!. In my opinion some people on earth are born to be great teachers!! Anybody cant simply become a teacher..One require those valuable teaching skills that can only be mastered by  perseverance and hardwork!!! Lack of dedication and sincerity gives birth to teachers who lack essential subject knowledge and who ultimately relies on reading out from textbooks..!!Dedicated teachers are the most prized possessions on our planet ....Just like another of my tutor said"Teaching is the mother of all professions, since teachers mould doctors,engineers,scientists,and all other professionals!!"