Almost every single person out there might have titled someone in their life as rhino-skinned but have you ever thought about the struggles they might have gone through before they evolved into their thick skinned versions. Thick skinned people are not born as such but they are infact sensitive people who faced numerous adversities in life and reached a point where almost nothing could break them apart. Their bold eyes shall be yearning to tell a shaking story of resilience.
Thick skin can be worn by almost anyone, for that all you need are resilience, optimism and utmost patience. with these 3 vital ingredients one can weather even the most destructive test in life. Being resilient doesnt say you shouldn't cry or get depressed but it essentially means that you need to spring back like a boomerang into your former self asap.Cry your heart out, worry about it but only for a while after that close that chapter and place it in the back of your head. if that happens once, twice, a zillion times back to back and you still remain like a tree, congrats you have earned the valuable possession known as the" rhino skin".
Easier said than done it's not easy to carry a multi load of problems on your head and pretend as if they are feathers and flowers.. Sorry guyz,but being guilty also doesn't help , so stop torturing yourself on the misfortunes, on the other hand, think of ammendments and prevent such adversities in future if at all preventable and also do what you can to recover from it for time being... take your mind off by socialising, going for a walk or outing , engaging in hobbies, playing with kids or pets, etc.
Just like Simba said in the famous animation "Lion King"," I laugh in the face of danger". do the same but dont go looking for trouble like him 😉 Your mind is how you set it in the first place when you set it on cry baby mode, you will always be a worry wart on the other hand if you set it on Ironman mode you shall grow stronger and stronger with each storm.When you feel yourself breaking down into a trillion pieces, gather all of those, fix them and be as whole as before. Lastly Love your life cause dear you have so much to be grateful for ❤️
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